Custody-Alienated Parents Unite

Federal dollars are paying to keep families apart. Tell your senators to stop it.

Two programs in the Social Security Act — Title IV-D and Title IV-E — send states roughly $16 billion a year in open-ended reimbursements tied to child support caseloads and out-of-home placements. The more separation, the more federal money. We're asking Congress to repeal both.

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Follow the money
25 : 1
In FY2023, federal spending favored adoption and guardianship payouts over family-preservation services by roughly 25 to 1.
~$16B
Combined annual federal + state spending under Title IV-D and Title IV-E — open-ended, with no cap.
21.9M
American children under 21 living with one parent while the other lives outside the household.
360,500
Children in foster care on the last day of FY2023 — each removal triggers federal IV-E reimbursement to the state.
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What we're asking Congress to do

The federal government cannot audit its way out of a funding structure that pays states to break families apart. The CAPS Movement asks Congress to end the perverse incentive at its source — and to make families whole. Our platform stands on four pillars:

1. Repeal Title IV-D and IV-E

Strike both programs from the Social Security Act on a defined timeline. Replace per-case, per-removal, per-collection reimbursement with fixed, capped block grants for verified family preservation and reunification only.

2. Clean Break Divorce

Congress should recommend that states adopt a Clean Break model: property and parenting resolved on equal terms at dissolution, without forcing fit, protective parents into open-ended court supervision and perpetual modification battles.

3. Accountability & due process

Narrow categorical immunity for family court actors and strengthen whistleblower and False Claims Act protections for people who report fraudulent or inflated IV-D/IV-E claims.

4. Family Restoration & Reimbursement Act

Create a federal fund to compensate families with documented financial losses caused by unjustified or excessive family-court litigation and related government actions — restoring what the system took.

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These seven officials don't depend on your ZIP code — anyone in America can write to them, and each one has a reason to care about federal fraud. Below is a shorter letter written in their language: fraud, false claims, and taxpayer dollars. Copy it, then work down the list.

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Vice President J.D. VanceUse the White House webform and address your message to the Vice President.
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First Lady Melania TrumpSame White House webform — address it to the First Lady. Her Fostering the Future initiative focuses on foster youth, so this message lands close to home.
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Acting Attorney General Todd BlancheThe DOJ form delivers messages to the Attorney General's office.
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AAG Colin M. McDonald, National Fraud Enforcement DivisionSame DOJ form — the first line of the letter names his office so it gets routed there.
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Andrew N. Ferguson, Chairman, Federal Trade CommissionThe FTC contact page lists the Office of Public Affairs and comment channels.
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Sen. Chuck Grassley, Chairman, Senate Judiciary CommitteeSenate offices prioritize their own constituents — if you're in Iowa, yours carries extra weight.
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Rep. Pat Fallon (TX-4), House Oversight CommitteeA leading voice against government fraud — Texans especially, make sure he hears from you.
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Tip: For the letter above, replace the first line's [Office] with whoever you're writing — for example, "To the Office of the Vice President" or "To Chairman Ferguson." Everything else stays the same.